Children are an open book. They are as brutal or as sweet as their heart chooses. They can open your mind to new ideas, surprise you with their knowledge and allow you the clarity you need in admitting mistakes.
I believe these qualities can also be attributed to wine. When one sits down with a glass and a friend, not only are we reflecting on its taste and smell qualities, but we are reflecting on life, asking questions and finding a path to take.
Each night, my husband and I choose to drink a glass together. This has become such an important and bonding experience in our marriage. Why? Because of the vulnerable environment it creates to grow closer through conversation. We have made life-changing decisions over a glass of wine.
Let's move to California
Why don't you interview for that new job?
Time to try for a baby!
We have also made life-changing apologies that have brought healing to our marriage as well.
I think it is important for our daughter and future children to learn not only how to drink alcohol in a healthy manner, but to appreciate it for what it can bring about in conversation and life. Wine is NOT necessary to have a healthy conversation or relationship - don't get me wrong on that - but it can help to open vulnerability's door.
And that's what I love about children and wine - vulnerability and truth.
Cheers!
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